A soul has the power to create. We are co-creators with God and creating is one of our "prime directives". Often we sell ourselves short of what we can do and can accomplish. We have strong tendancies to be a certain way. Even if it does not bid us well to be that way we continue anyway. As a soul we can end this and get off of the Merry-Go-Round. First you must "diagnose" yourself to know what should be changed and what should not. Meditation, prayer, study/education can bring these to light if you are attentive enough. Then constructive change can take place.