Hope everyone is having a good new year. Like everyone I have set standards higher. I generally meet 50% of my goals and feel good about that! I believe I let others "get in my way" of being 100%, but then if I were 100% that might indicate I am not putting others ahead of me enough. Love is probably in that 50 and 50 range. That is also reflecting standing up for myself without doing others in. Not really passive, but not really aggressive either. Assertive is the word I am looking for. We should live assertively.